Benefits of having two kids

10 Benefits of Having Two Children

I’ve had two children for 8 months now and I think it’s easy to sometimes focus on the difficulties of having double the trouble, twice as many chores and half as much money to spend on each. There are benefits of having two children though. Certainly in my household I’ve found two can sometimes make things easier. I thought I would share some of my reflections with you now I have two boys, Lewis (almost 4) and Aaron (8 months).

Benefits of having two kids

1. They are such good company for each other, it’s lovely to watch them interact. I was surprised at how quickly they became friends. Now Aaron is crawling and stealing Lewis’ toys. Lewis is teasing Aaron and bullying him. On many occasions I am telling Lewis to be careful while Aaron is laughing his head off at being dragged across the floor, or buried under a pile of Teddy bears. It’s hard not to join in the laughter but someone has to be the responsible adult!

2. You realise that going shopping with one child is easy. When Lewis was younger I used to explain the lack of groceries by saying how hard it was to go shopping with him. Now I am delighted if I manage to get out with just one boy in tow!

3. If you have a second child of the same sex, you save a fortune by passing down used clothing and toys. They don’t even have to be the same sex – it depends on the items and your equality views.

4. If you have a second child you save a fortune by not buying all the useless baby items you considered ‘must haves’ with your first.

5. Often you can gain reduced entry to attractions, or on holidays by buying a family ticket. These are nearly always designed for 2 Adults and 2 Children.

6. As I mentioned the boys are already good company for each other which means there are rare moments when they are playing together happily and I can be getting on with something else, like housework. Ok, maybe not housework, but I can be painting my nails or reading a book.

7. About 50% of the people that  were continually asking you when you were going to have another one, will stop. The other 50% will still ask you this question ever time they see you!

8. It’s easy to get to sleep at night, because you’ve been so busy  trying to get ahead with the mountain of washing playing with your children all day.

9. You’ve already ‘toughened up’ a bit, and are no longer completely humiliated when your baby starts screaming hysterically and you are out in public.

10. You get twice as many kisses and cuddles, which is the best benefit of all!

Phew, that was actually harder than I thought! I’m pretty sure I could make a much longer list about the drawbacks of having two children, but I like to  focus on the positives!

So if you are considering adding to your family I hope this has been useful! If you already have more than one child, what benefits of having two children would make your list?

You may also like my post The Truth About Having Two Children.

 

24 thoughts on “10 Benefits of Having Two Children

  1. Merlinda Little (@pixiedusk)

    Aww now I want a brother for my son. I am always planning on 2 kids but.. budget is just too tight for baby number 2. I love your post =) #sharewithme

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  2. Jenny

    I love this. What a great post and great list too. Way to go you!!! That takes some to make. I have two but I would love another one, Mr P not so much. hahaha I found having two so much fun but I am sure as they both hit the toddler ages almost together my list will go beyond my writing skills and the want for a third will fade. lol #sharewithme

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  3. Sara (@mumturnedmom)

    There certainly lots of positives! I have three and it definitely gets more complicated, but in lots of ways easier as they entertain each other! There are six years between my oldest and youngest, so it won’t be too long before he can look after them all 🙂

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  4. Char Paulsson

    This has made me feel much less freaked about baby number two’s arrival! You hear so many tales of awful jealousy and sibling rivalry, its lovely to hear about two little ones getting on so well 🙂 x

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  5. hayleyfromhome

    I agree, 4 and 9 are the ones I have benefitted from most, it takes more than a tantrum to frighten me these days! Really like this, I’m glad we decided to extend our family (even if we got one more than we expected)

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    1. mydaysni Post author

      I’m not sure how I would feel if I decided to have another one, and got another two! Though yours are super cute, so I’m sure it’s worth it!

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  6. Eline

    I love points 4 and 9! We’re sticking with the one kiddo at the moment as I’m nowhere near ready to deal with the chaos of having two… Though I am glad you managed to think of some positive things to say about having more than one – everyone else seems to delight in scaring us with horror stories which is NOT helping with making a decision 😉

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  7. Helen Porter

    I completely agree with all that is written here! I love having my boys I do somehow wish I had a little princess as well though – who knows though I definitely wouldn’t rule it out xx

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  8. Model mummy (@modelmum1)

    A tiny inch of me considered it recently. But then I changed my mind again. We are going through the terrible twos so maybe that will explain it!

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